tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post1235217242956689298..comments2023-11-26T07:11:39.658-08:00Comments on Replikate: BLINGk8http://www.blogger.com/profile/11840786903333344189noreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-10254860581165976802007-08-06T14:16:00.000-07:002007-08-06T14:16:00.000-07:00I love this post!I love this post!Dubious Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04268449154223940373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-35704788221359182852007-08-06T11:37:00.000-07:002007-08-06T11:37:00.000-07:00I have wanted a band for sometime, with or without...I have wanted a band for sometime, with or without some small tasteful diamonds. Now I dont even want that. The diamond has somehow become distasteful to me. Not that I walk around judging other people for their rings, but personally, not necessary, and definitely not for me.Saritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10094278384918808776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-52938219626530970542007-08-06T10:42:00.000-07:002007-08-06T10:42:00.000-07:00If you're secure with who you are, you don't care ...If you're secure with who you are, you don't care what's on your hand. <BR/><BR/>If you're husband is secure with who he is, he won't have to feel like he needs to prove to the world that he's a good provider by going into debt for a worthless rock. <BR/><BR/>Good for you for not wanting a diamond. I'm impressed by other women who are free enough thinkers to not be pursuaded by society, marketing or peer pressure.Salt H2Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13530132008817346271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-19543995466205446582007-07-29T19:28:00.000-07:002007-07-29T19:28:00.000-07:00jordan, loved the aquamarine and stacked rings. i ...jordan, loved the aquamarine and stacked rings. i wish i'd been more aware of the options out there. then again, it was 18 yrs ago (i goofed saying it was 17), and it was harder work back then to find affordable style...i really coulda used helps and tips from some of those great blogs i have access to now ;)jennydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12293654645075007046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-38910199980400256032007-07-26T23:06:00.000-07:002007-07-26T23:06:00.000-07:00Hi, I got to your blog from Chloe's blog, and this...Hi, I got to your blog from Chloe's blog, and this bling post, and comments have really made me want to comment too! My ring is wonderful. The diamond has been in our family for about 85 years. I love it because 1. I think it is beautiful, and 2. Everytime I look at it, I think not only about my family I have now and my wonderful husband, but it also makes me think of all of the family that came before. It helps me remember what my marriage means to me. <BR/>On another note... just to all of you thinking a peral is a great option... think again! Perals are a very soft stone, and to wear it every day is not the best choice... the peral will wear down, and fall out of the setting. If you want to have a stone and you are looking for something that does not have the same moral issues as the "blood Diamonds" you may want to consider Moissanite. It is a lab created stone, but looks very close to a diamond. http://russianbrilliants.net/introduction.html It is also is not too bad on the wallet. Also a Moissanite will test diamond positive with a diamond tester at a jewler. (Except for the newer testers) I have always thought that a simple band is wonderful! It is really up to you, and what you are happy with. You have to look at it every day.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04639072192196332023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-90883464685359306332007-07-26T09:30:00.000-07:002007-07-26T09:30:00.000-07:00I think it is interesting that everyone is worried...I think it is interesting that everyone is worried about what everyone else thinks. :) Like I said before, {in my humble opinion} it is about having good taste and picking out a bomb ass ring that YOU love. Price and good taste are not mutually exclusive. A lot of the comments come from people who got married in college. PLEASE let's not expect the same type of rings from boys who are still in college and men who are in an established career. Since we both had careers when my husband and I got married we had a lot more options for honeymoons, wedding, and ring because we paid for everything ourselves.<BR/><BR/>P.S. here are some great non-diamond rings I've blogged about before. This <A HREF="http://www.topazery.com/antique-jewelry-item-rg1360.htm" REL="nofollow">Mabe Pearl ring</A> and and this really beautiful <A HREF="http://www.topazery.com/antique-jewelry-item-rg1531.htm" REL="nofollow">aquamarine ring</A>. {Both under $2,000}. I also just talked my friend into getting <A HREF="http://jordanferney.blogspot.com/2007/03/zoe-chicco.html" REL="nofollow">these rad stacked rings</A> for her engagement ring. {super cheap}jordanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12005460268290465753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-78365024647547838002007-07-25T19:05:00.000-07:002007-07-25T19:05:00.000-07:00Whatever, Katie.For every pearl you harvest, an oy...Whatever, Katie.<BR/>For every pearl you harvest, an oyster has to die. TO DIE, Katie!!! Did you ever consider THAT?!?!<BR/><BR/>Didn't think so.f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-54760737891486682832007-07-25T10:39:00.000-07:002007-07-25T10:39:00.000-07:00long time lurker, first time commenter. i found yo...long time lurker, first time commenter. i found your blog through a friend and i've enjoyed reading it ever since.<BR/><BR/>when my husband and i first talked about getting engaged i told him that i didn't want a ring but when he insisted i told him that the most he could spend was $100 so he better start looking on ebay. we were living in provo at the time and the reaction i remember the most was from one girl who said to me "did you always want such a...modest ring?" it was really frustrating to be surrounded by so much ring judgment, and i started doing the opposite - judging girls with large rings as being spendthrifts and tacky and thinking that i was better than everyone else because i had refused to buy into the big diamond culture. and while i still kind of do that i try to remind myself that we're all different with different wants and needs and that one girl's desire for a giant ring isn't any better or worse than my desire for the world's best collection of cassette tapes.<BR/><BR/>anyway, keep posting because i love reading...Sarah BTWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00403215070923112812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-36473530140956307772007-07-25T10:14:00.000-07:002007-07-25T10:14:00.000-07:00Did you jump on the anti-Debeers train after readi...Did you jump on the anti-Debeers train after reading an article in the Straight Dope? <BR/><BR/>'cause that's what I did.B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04095187188894807317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-51740491904304554172007-07-24T23:53:00.000-07:002007-07-24T23:53:00.000-07:00p.s. Everything you ever say about Kevin makes me ...p.s. Everything you ever say about Kevin makes me think he seems like a pretty cool guy : )k8https://www.blogger.com/profile/11840786903333344189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-25444433467206537262007-07-24T23:52:00.000-07:002007-07-24T23:52:00.000-07:00oh please..i love your long posts and actually wha...oh please..i love your long posts and actually what you just said hits on a lot of why i'm feeling "no thanks" about a ring. it makes me sad that you ever felt any kind of pressure about it. i know in college we spent way, way too much time talking and thinking about rings (which was silly since hi, 10 years later and still single here) and i'll bet there were girls in my circle who were nervous that what they got didn't measure up. It seems like such a dumb thing to compare and judge each other on. i have several friends who have made alternative choices-no ring, different stones, plain band-and it's embarrassing to womankind that those ladies have very often gotten mixed reactions from people. Like we need MORE places to feel we don't measure up. <BR/><BR/>And let's just remember ladies..."a diamond is forever' is not actually in the Bible, but is quite possibly the greatest feat of advertising copywriting in the history of advertising copywriting. Thanks DeBeers!<BR/>(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/De_Beers#Marketing)k8https://www.blogger.com/profile/11840786903333344189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-86250187530654071942007-07-24T23:20:00.000-07:002007-07-24T23:20:00.000-07:00My friend Rachel opted for a piano instead of a ri...My friend Rachel opted for a piano instead of a ring.<BR/><BR/>Kevin asked me if I would rather have a really nice honeymoon or put that money towards a ring. I thought, well only I would enjoy the ring, but both of us would enjoy a nice honeymoon. And my mom just wore a plain gold band, so I thought that would be cool. Plus, I thought it was crazy that people went into debt for this. I got a $100 gold band.<BR/><BR/>I wish I could say the story ends there . Doesn't. Started feelng a little sorry for myself after we married, as I noticed all our friends and the other young couples around us had big rocks. It wasn't that they had something I didn't, it's what having a big rock seemed to imply---or what not having one did. It's hard to explain because I totally can't relate to it now, but I found myself resenting that Kevin hadn't found it worth his while to make a fuss over me/my ring...as if that was a symbol of his regard for me (but take into account I already felt badly because he never took me looking for rings because that was such a BYU thing to do and he'd have none of it--- or he didn't want me to tell people after he proposed, at least for a few days). <BR/><BR/>So I guess my issue w/ not having a good rock was more about my insecurity or worrying what other people thought or the judgements they might make). Cus I've never had jewelry lust.<BR/><BR/>And I feel outright entitled to that bit of foolishness because hey, it was 17 yrs ago (this Friday, in fact)and was just a twerp (still kinda am,though).<BR/><BR/>Maybe I get bonus points for at least going for just a band. <BR/><BR/>And as for how I feel about it now....totally don't care. <BR/><BR/>(yike, sorry for long-posting on your thread. But you know me)jennydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12293654645075007046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-72588350995871096872007-07-24T22:14:00.000-07:002007-07-24T22:14:00.000-07:00I always said I wanted a simple band - more practi...I always said I wanted a simple band - more practical, less intimidating, better use of money elsewhere - but Josh picked out the setting and diamond for my ring, and even though it wasn't anything I had ever expected, I fell in love with it right away. I have a hunch you'd do the same, regardless of what you think or feel right now.<BR/><BR/>I love getting compliments on it and I love it even more when I tell people he picked it out all by himself. If my wedding ring is a symbol of my husband's love and eternal devotion to me, why on earth would *I* pick it out or change it in any way?<BR/><BR/>PS - my ring isn't all big and fancy and he definitely did not go into debt or spend two months' salary on it. There is a happy medium, you know.Daisy Paigehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05660203283643761038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-46438230203620112172007-07-24T16:58:00.000-07:002007-07-24T16:58:00.000-07:00pearls are so pretty. and no one dies harvesting t...pearls are so pretty. and no one dies harvesting those ; )k8https://www.blogger.com/profile/11840786903333344189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-21523408959298589092007-07-24T16:56:00.000-07:002007-07-24T16:56:00.000-07:00I always said, "Engagement JetSkis"!!!We ARE livin...I always said, "Engagement JetSkis"!!!<BR/>We ARE living the same life!!!f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-85197883189992332582007-07-24T15:47:00.000-07:002007-07-24T15:47:00.000-07:00Yeah. After going to west africa and seeing bloo...Yeah. After going to west africa and seeing blood diamond, I'm not so sure I want a diamond. Yes I think they are pretty, but I'd love a sapphire or Pearl ring all the same. I'm thinking...small diamond if at all. But I do want a ring no matter what.Whitshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16991740120109883957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-14384510469343502502007-07-24T12:31:00.000-07:002007-07-24T12:31:00.000-07:00EXACTLY! Exactly! Oh, Katie. Thank you. Wow, I...EXACTLY! Exactly! Oh, Katie. Thank you. Wow, I really am not the only one. <BR/><BR/>I've actually had a friend or two get very defensive whenever I mention that I don't want an engagement ring. As if my not wanting one makes them wanting one a bad thing. Go fig.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01881149102981381456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-11802837080899939012007-07-24T11:27:00.000-07:002007-07-24T11:27:00.000-07:00eh. we'll see. i didn't just pull these strong fee...eh. we'll see. i didn't just pull these strong feelings out of a hat. i guess i hope the boy who wants to marry me doesn't think i'm saying one thing and meaning "get me one anyway!"k8https://www.blogger.com/profile/11840786903333344189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-53937506240228885072007-07-24T11:12:00.000-07:002007-07-24T11:12:00.000-07:00I call B.S.--Wait until he gives you some fabulous...I call B.S.--Wait until he gives you some fabulous ring and let's see you turn it down. :)<BR/><BR/>Like anything, jewelry can be gaudy or well done. I think it is all about having good taste.<BR/><BR/>BESIDES wedding rings, diamonds before you are 40 are tacky.jordanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12005460268290465753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-51400369325208854552007-07-24T10:10:00.000-07:002007-07-24T10:10:00.000-07:00I've always been a bit ambivalent about diamond en...I've always been a bit ambivalent about diamond engagement rings not so much because of any moral or ethical qualms but because it makes me nervous to spend so much on something that I could easily misplace or lose. I tend to be a bit spacey and I have lost just about every great piece of jewelry I've ever owned. I can just imagine taking it off to wash dishes or put lotion on my hands and then going back to where I thought I left it and getting that sick, panicked feeling when it's not there. <BR/><BR/>Anyway, kudos for knowing what REALLY matters to you and for expressing it eloquently.Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13290999216595563146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-31892380289596941702007-07-24T09:33:00.000-07:002007-07-24T09:33:00.000-07:00i've always said- i'd much rather have an engageme...i've always said- i'd much rather have an engagement BOAT than an engagement RING!cropstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15656358346726200231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-62169896110289565532007-07-24T09:03:00.000-07:002007-07-24T09:03:00.000-07:00katie, your post about your ring and your proposal...katie, your post about your ring and your proposal totally made me teary eyed-it was so sweet and romantic.<BR/><BR/>well i was afraid i was going to offend folks with my thoughts but i'm glad to hear you are all on the same page!!k8https://www.blogger.com/profile/11840786903333344189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-1770959852744755962007-07-24T08:06:00.000-07:002007-07-24T08:06:00.000-07:00I'm wearing a diamond because it was my husbands g...I'm wearing a diamond because it was my husbands grandmother's diamond, reset for me.<BR/><BR/>And that's pretty much the only reason.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05587622592688368240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-68850267428017033922007-07-24T07:29:00.000-07:002007-07-24T07:29:00.000-07:00Pardon me.MOISSANITE!There.Pardon me.<BR/>MOISSANITE!<BR/>There.f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23566989.post-3865981346730856502007-07-24T07:26:00.000-07:002007-07-24T07:26:00.000-07:00That being said, a piece of jewelry is a piece of ...That being said, a piece of jewelry is a piece of jewelry. I don't care how fake and how cheap it is, but if I'm gonna wear it, it damn well better LOOK good.f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.com